One of the reasons for prayer practices (like this Advent calendar) is to make room in our hearts to notice that God is there, actively working to heal your hurts and bless you.
What are the simple gifts of the Spirit that you are receiving in this moment, in this day, in this season of your life? Complete these sentences:
I am grateful for. . .
I have. . .
I am glad about. . .
Do you answers reveal a pattern of your spiritual strengths and needs? Pray for God to open to you any gifts you have overlooked.